.However what Astrid does not realize but is a reality that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who has 2 children-- can confirm: The simple fact that your connection with your moms and dads changes and also progresses as you both get older, and also perhaps for the better. "Your world centers around [your children] when they are actually babies [and] it's so much job however wonderful," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you truly miss that, given that after that you can not obtain them to accomplish anything you wish them to perform, considering that they begin establishing their very own minds, their own viewpoints." And inevitably, you find yourself in the place O'Hara, whose boys remain in their 20s and also 30s, finds herself today, capable to learn from her kids. "They are actually just such great youthful men," she states. "I am actually not their buddy, but I enjoy having conversations along with all of them and understanding just how they consider lifestyle.".